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- "Some people bear their own suffering better than you suffering on their behalf" -- Mooji id:: 63ade030-4ca4-4baa-a39e-49ab02f1be5a - Video - {{video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XCzUO7sGkKY}} - Transcript - The Self The Self The Self The Self Sometimes you acknowledge and feel fully your helplessness. Don't try so much to get out of it. It's also a part of consciousness also. In its human form, in this vehicle, to come to a place of total helplessness, which is nothing you can do. There's no options, especially when you want to do something, you want to heal, you want to stop something and watch that noise and surrender to the seeing, to the feeling that sometimes there's nothing to do. Perhaps also to look at the way in which, because some people bear their own suffering better than you, suffering on their behalf. Because when you're in the experience yourself, something, some consciousness moves about, finds its way in that situation that feels authentic. But you and your projection sometimes suffering more on their behalf. And while doing that, you're not suffering them, you're not supporting them. You see, sometimes you may even bring a bit of disturbing energy around them, which is not needed. It's better you are in peace. It's better you're in peace than you're feeling terrible on behalf of someone who can't benefit from your own private terror about it. And don't bring to someone your sorrowfulness about them. That's not good. If he's so sorry for you, please go away. And then you have to go. It's better to somehow, it's really good to be with people who are comfortable with themselves, be aware of you and just somehow like this. If there is something to do, it somehow will come up like an illumination inside, especially when you're quiet. I think that's the hard part, except that you can't really do anything. And always thinking, how can I make it better, this desire to make it better? And you can't do that. Sometimes, but often not. In moments, there's nothing I can do at all ever. But if that feeling is there, there's nothing that one can do here, actually, that I can feel or think about. So what you can do is to relax. At least relax with them. You see, relax with them. But don't make relaxing with them into another thing. If you're not able to, then ask you, there's some shopping I can do or something, and whatever. But if you're calm, it will be such a comfort to be with someone who is calm and still. But to feel moments of complete helplessness, it's really a feeling, very important feeling when it comes. Complete helplessness, I can't do, there's nothing to do. Because the man is always thinking of something to do, you know. Then sometimes nothing to do. And in that moment, but being still. And if there is something that arises through the intuition or something, then that will be felt, and that will be your contribution, if you want to. I don't know if that's the right word, but you're there. And accept that life at the level of biological life, whatever emotional, social life, everything has always in transition. Also we'll come to an end, that part of it. I think there's something in my mind that says, it's not fair. Do you know? Yes, yes. It's not fair that you had to go through that. Yeah. Hmm. You just come to a place that when you give up the sense of control, of wanting things to be different from the day they happen, because this is this life story of the universe. Coming and going, coming and going. Sometimes pain, sometimes joy, sometimes this, sometimes that. Happiness can be a very good teacher, a very good friend, a very good interducer to the self. Being comfortable and catered for in every respect can be the worst thing for you, sometimes. The great chef prepares all the meals as is suited to the taste of all the beings. Your pleasure. Hm. Oh. Hmm, hmm. All the apples are planted. more attacking, so you recognize them. Good to see the last piece. Thank you.