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title:: Books/The Way Of A Superior Man - - collapsed:: true 3. Live As If Your Father Were Dead #Father's Death - A man must love his father and yet be free of his father’s expectations and criticisms in order to be a free man. - How would you have lived your life differently if you had never tried to please your father? - Always Hold To Your Deepest Realization collapsed:: true - Eternity must be a man’s home, moment by moment. Without it, he is lost, always striving, grasping at puffs of smoke. A man must do anything necessary to glimpse, and then stabilize, this ever-fresh realization, and organize his life around it. - Use aids to support your relaxation into, and creation from, this source. Read books that remind you of who you are, in truth. Spend time with people who inspire and reflect the source to you. Meditate, contemplate, or pray daily so that you steep yourself in the source. - ==each task is a mirage of necessity.== - meet each moment with your deepest realization. - Never Change Your Mind Just to Please a Woman collapsed:: true - If a woman suggests something that changes a man’s perspective, then he should make a new decision based on his new perspective. But he should never betray his own deepest knowledge and intuition in order to please his woman or “go along” with her. Both she and he will be weakened by such an action. They will grow to resent each other, and the crust of accumulated inauthenticity will burden their love, as well as their capacity for free action. - Your Purpose Must Come Before Your Relationship collapsed:: true - Every man knows that his highest purpose in life cannot be reduced to any particular relationship. If a man prioritizes his relationship over his highest purpose, he weakens himself, disserves the universe, and cheats his woman of an authentic man who can offer her full, undivided presence. - Tell your woman that you love her, but you cannot deny your heart’s purpose. Tell her that you will spend 30 minutes (or some specific time) with her in absolute attention and total presence, but then you must return to carry on your mission. - Time you spend with your woman should be time you really want to be with her more than anything else. ==If you’d rather be doing something else, she’ll feel it.== - collapsed:: true 8. Lean Just Beyond Your Edge - Your fear is the sharpest definition of your self. You should know it. You should feel it virtually constantly. Fear needs to become your friend, so that you are no longer uncomfortable with it. Rather, primary fear shows you that you are at your edge. Staying with the fear, staying at your edge, allows real transformation to occur. - Neither lazy nor aggressive, playing your edge allows you to perceive the moment with the least amount of distortion. You are willing to be with what is, rather than trying to escape it by pulling back from it, or trying to escape it by pushing beyond it into some future goal. - - 10. Enjoy Your Friends' Criticism - 17 Praise Her collapsed:: true - Praise specific things you love about your woman 5 to 10 times a day. Find out what happens. - On Dark Side collapsed:: true - facing the limiting stress of your own self-sense, and relaxing through it, into the absolute freedom you have always intuited at your core, id:: 64a7f7f7-bda9-4d0d-93f6-dbf4c11bb38e - You must be as fearless with your sexual desire as you are with your spiritual desire. - **11:52** quick capture: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRUum9Q5/?k=1