Tuesday, February 18, 2025

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  - ## 08:21 AM Remember:
- Daily Score
- 5
- 7 - 9 am. good start so far at my desk. Saie off to work. I am #stoic. I am thinking. I am writing.
- 8 - 9:30 #caffeinekick Celcius. Feeling euphoric.
- 8 - 10am #sid/daki💦 #feelinggood
- 8 - 12:30 AM - phew tiring tuesday meeting
- 7 - downer, on aggresive reaction getting no counter reaction demotivates me
  - - **Morning Pages**
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- What is my fundamental issue with #mogre?
  - Achievement seeking
  - But there are many? So am I in a way?
  - I wouldn't introduce someone as "she is topper in IIM"
  - well say - my mom will, in some other way - it will show - but not on titles and badges, just for who I am hmmm. Rishta. Hmm.
  - Dad will show proud. On character backed my achievement. Will overdo. ok. Can show nonchalant bias.
  - But both will never put others down.
  - Is something different about "she is a topper in IIM"?
  - cut above the rest vs I am not at the bottom
  - deep insecurity vs deep affirmation
  - I am better than others vs I am not less
  - hmm
  - so why does it bother me? What's so different?
  - The falsity of it. It's coming from the mind. Not from the heart.
  - So maybe it's my vehement rejection of the false.
  - hmmm
  - Isn't all False? Yes.
  - Love is real. Saie's love for me is Real.
  - Saie's mom love for her is real. My father's love for me is real.
  - Then it's the expression of love that I find offensive? Hmm maybe
  - It's that I can't call out the bad behavior. Hmm.
  - I would be v upset and v angry, if I weren't allowed to express this with my parents.
  - oooo - that's big. It's the lack of me being myself while them being whatever they want to be.
  - Again too vague.
  - So nothing I cna recall, ,where I think I controlled myself on the call yesterday. In fact, I made many loving gestures, showed them the Gardyn, talked abiut flights, the "topper from IIM" intro to whatever girl that trigerred me but not important to me; so what happened?
  - Step by step. At what point...
  - ok start was good. Uncle was smiling. Better than before. I liked it. Score 7
  - Ok. It started with the way Saie was holding the phone hmm,. Yes. Too sideways, showing halk her face, and half mine, not a good look. **Score 6**
  - Question - "no computer today?" -- lame but ok. **Score 6**
  - Intro to random girl - "IIM topper" - #triggered - **Score 4**
    - I tried to ask question "which kind of technonoloy" - lame answer, but it's ok. I had no intererest.
    - I was filled bad thoughts.
  - Discussion on NZ. "she makes 100 medu wada" and stuff. Not interesting to me.
  - I said "decor too much" - "it is for you" - Not helping the score. **Score 4.**
  - I talked about movie Chavva. "I read the book".. I tried to bring her down cautiousky on historical facts - but I find myself #triggered again #damn. Another intellectual "I am superior" expression. I could have asked better question - " How much of it you think it's true?" #argh. ==Rather I took it as a challenge.==. #aha - #intellectuallychallenged
    - Ok. Let's unpack.
  - Gaya plans + other discussion. Nothing produce joy or a feeling of great communication.
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